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| The great philosopher Aristotle |
I promise you that this post has to do with Hanukkah. Please indulge me as I take the long way to get there ...
The purpose of a rhetorical question or statement is to make a point by provoking thought, without expecting a direct answer, instead guiding the audience to a conclusion through deeper reflection.
This Morning I Was Provoked
This morning a dear friend sent me kind words concerning events in Australia. Of course I'm referring to the "Hanukkah massacre" on Bondi Beach in Australia. I replied to him saying, "Thank you for such a kind expression. "Your heart is always in the right place. It is so strange to be in this season of joy, while at the same time the world is attacking Jews for being Jews -- Lighting a Menorah."
Right after the words left my fingertips, I meditated on the expression I had just used and what it means to "have a heart in the right place."
Feeling lazy, I asked "Perplexity AI," to explore the expression "heart in the right place." Here is its reply:
The expression “heart in the right place” is an English idiom that describes sincere inner motives, even when outward actions are clumsy or imperfect. It focuses more on intention than on competence or success.
Basic meaning: To say someone’s “heart is in the right place” means that the person genuinely means well and has good intentions, even if what they say or do is awkward, misguided, or not very effective. It usually carries a mildly corrective tone: the speaker recognizes flaws but wants to affirm the person’s fundamental kindness or moral orientation.
Moral and emotional nuance: The idiom draws on the symbolic association of the “heart” with compassion, love, and sincerity rather than anatomy. In practice, it is often used when someone’s behavior is strict, blunt, or socially inept, yet they are still considered kind, sympathetic, or caring at a deeper level. This allows a speaker to acknowledge problems in method while protecting the person’s character from harsh moral judgment.
Use in everyday language: In everyday conversation, the phrase appears in contexts where the outcome is disappointing or the form is off, but the underlying aim is good. Examples include comments about strict teachers, gruff relatives, or poorly chosen gifts that nonetheless sprang from generosity. It can also be extended to institutions or creative works, suggesting that a project or film is flawed but ethically or emotionally commendable in what it tries to do.
Origin and development: The precise historical origin of the idiom is unclear, but it fits into a broader tradition of heart-metaphors in English, such as “heart of gold,” “wear one’s heart on one’s sleeve,” and “take something to heart.” Over time, “heart in the right place” came to emphasize judging people by their core intentions rather than by polished performance, aligning the “right place” with moral rectitude or rightly ordered affections.
Ethical and spiritual dimension: Because the expression foregrounds inner disposition, it easily lends itself to ethical and spiritual reflection. Religious writers sometimes use it to ask whether a person’s deepest loyalties and desires are properly oriented—toward God, goodness, or neighborly love—rather than toward self-interest, even if the person’s practical judgment is immature or inconsistent. In this sense, having one’s heart “in the right place” becomes less about social niceness and more about the direction of the will and the fundamental posture of the self.
I followed up with this rhetorical statement to Perplexity: "So a heart in the right place is a heart oriented toward loving their fellow" to which Perplexity responded:
Yes, the idiom "heart in the right place" fundamentally points to a disposition oriented toward goodwill, compassion, and care for others, including loving one's fellow.
Core Orientation: This expression highlights an inner alignment where a person's deepest intentions prioritize kindness and empathy over self-interest. It implies the "heart"—as the biblical and cultural seat of emotion and will—is rightly directed toward benevolent actions, even if execution falters.
Biblical Resonance: In scriptural terms, this echoes commands like Leviticus 19:18 ("love your neighbor as yourself") and parallels New Testament expansions in passages such as Matthew 22:39, where love for fellow humans flows from a heart attuned to divine priorities. The "right place" suggests moral rectitude, with affections ordered toward communal good rather than isolation or malice.
Theological Implications: Theologically, a heart "in the right place" reflects covenantal loyalty and agape love, judging character by motivational root rather than outward polish. Religious discourse often probes this: Is the heart's compass fixed on neighborly love, as in the Good Samaritan parable (Luke 10:25-37), amid human imperfection?
To wrap up my conversation with Perplexity, I finished with a conclusion phrased as a rhetorical question: "Is this why we need to examine our heart?"
Yes, examining the heart is essential in biblical teaching because it reveals whether one's deepest affections and intentions—such as love for fellow humans—are truly aligned with God's will, given the heart's inherent deceitfulness.
Biblical Imperative: Scripture repeatedly calls for heart examination to uncover hidden sins, wrong motives, or misdirected loves, as in Psalm 139:23-24, where the psalmist invites God to search for offensive ways and lead toward righteousness. Jeremiah 17:9 warns that the heart is "deceitful above all things," prone to self-deception, so only divine scrutiny ensures proper orientation toward neighborly love and covenant loyalty.
Practical Reasons: Self-examination combats denial, exposes embraced lies, and fosters repentance, allowing God's Word to convict, correct, and renew the inner self for spiritual growth. It confirms faith's vitality (2 Corinthians 13:5) and guards against reactions revealing unhealed motives, ensuring the heart's compass points to agape love amid human frailty.
Theological Depth: Ultimately, this practice acknowledges human sinfulness while relying on God's healing as the Great Physician, transforming a heart "in the right place" from good intentions to obedient fruitfulness in loving God and neighbor.
Tools Are Only As Capable as the Craftsman's Hands
One reason I use Perplexity is that it provides citations (sources) for the responses it gives the user.Those who question the status quo and explore possibilities, rather than accepting things as they are, are the ones who will adapt, lead, and build a better future.
"In the age of AI, we’ll start valuing different types of people – not just those with the right answers, but those who know how to ask the right questions."
Sam Altman, CEO of OpenAI
I would add, that the future of the world depends on people having "their heart in the right place."
The Connection To Hanukkah
The philosophical thinker most famous for developing a systematic theory of rhetoric is Aristotle. Aristotle's most famous student was Alexander the Great. There is perhaps no person more responsible for the holiday of Hanukkah than Alexander the Great.
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| My family tie... |
In that hit TV sitcom, Michael J. Fox played a character named "Alex" who portrayed an ambitious, Reagan-era Young Republican, Alex P. Keaton, whose conservative views clashed with and his liberal parents. The name worked for me!
There was greater reason I went with Alex. I
associated the name with Alexander the Great. It inspired me to think about what I wanted our son to grow up to be. By the way, our Alexander was born on the Jewish high holy day of Yom Kippur, which also happens to be the day Jews read the Book of Jonah.Conclusion
Today, while the world is trying to explain and deal with the massacre on a beach thousands of miles away, I believe it is important to have our heart in the right place.





































